One of the most frequent questions that gets asked to our team is on how to give a man intense pleasure or, in other words, “how to drive a man crazy in bed”.
That’s why we’ve decided to share some ideas with you here, in case this has crossed your mind as well.
Of course, each man is unique, has particular interests and desires and likes different things.
What one man likes, another man might not even want to do.
5 tips on how to drive a man wild
These are tips that you will be able to use whenever you want. You will notice very pleasurable reactions coming from the man you are with.
Before the tips, let’s talk about foreplay
Have you ever heard that only women like to be stimulated during foreplay?
Men like it too.
By the way, as men are focused on penetration, good foreplay tends to get them off the ground; it leaves them at a loss for what to do. Good foreplay makes them super aroused too.
Foreplay consists of all the moments before sex.
But if you’re thinking of foreplay as kissing, or oral sex only, or anything done without clothes on before penetration occurs, you’re wrong.
In fact, foreplay can be hours before, minutes before, and oddly enough, even during sex.
Yes, you can work on foreplay without necessarily having a sequence planned out, it can even come during sex as you’ll understand later on.
Who said sex has to have this sequence order?
It starts with hugging, kissing on the lips, taking one’s clothes off, then taking the other partner’s clothes off, oral sex in one, oral sex in the other, penetration until orgasm…
Sex that is always done the same way loses its fun.
Mix up the order and change the entire sequence whenever you like.
Remembering that there is no first, second, or third activity, do it when you feel like it and in the order you want.
1) Work on your look, men are mostly visual
In the human brain, the most developed sensory part in men is vision.
It is this area that, when stimulated, shoots a man’s arousal all the way up.
You don’t need to talk a lot, you don’t need to talk nonstop, you need to work on the look.
Unlike women, men generally don’t value petals on the bed, flowers during the day, or a celebration of the couple’s wedding anniversary.
Men, in the vast majority of cases, are not terribly stimulated by very romantic scenes.
Instead of filling the room with photos, making a poster, sending messages at work (which for women can make a big difference), understand that for men this doesn’t mean much.
Want to crank it up in intensity?
Change the look. It doesn’t take much – lie down in bed, on your stomach, while wearing a pair of panties that make you feel beautiful (preferably a thong) while he gets out of the shower.
Then just wait for his reaction. What matters is what he is seeing.
Or, if he’s in the room, you can wear a nightgown and make him realize that there’s nothing underneath.
If you think about romanticism, know that men aren’t always like that.
You will often turn a man on quickly if you stimulate his vision.
2) Always speak words in augmentative
While women like words in the diminutive, men like everything in the augmentative, especially when referring to his genitals.
So never say anything small about his penis, always use words that express strength, greatness, and he will feel like the biggest and most powerful man in that moment.
For example, never say that his penis is small, or that it is sleeping. Say “wow, how big”, or “you are so hard today, aren’t you?” And he’s going to be very aroused by it.
Read also:
- Great spicy questions to get someone in the mood
- Dirty Talk: Why it is so arousing and the 20 best phrases during sex
3) Have great oral sex
Good oral sex is among the top 5 preferences among men in sex, because with your mouth you are able to do what the vagina can never do.
Don’t think that men only like vaginas because in sex they tend to want to penetrate straight away.
Men love oral sex.
The vagina is a single tube, it has no internal movement except at the entrance and that on the external part only.
With your mouth and tongue you can make movements that the vagina will never be able to imitate.
With the mouth, the man will feel the same heat as your body, because your mouth has the same temperature as your vagina.
The inner skin of the mouth is smooth and has cells that are identical to the inner part of the vagina.
The mouth also provides a gliding sensation just like the vagina, with the advantage of being able to make several more movements.
The mouth is easy to lubricate with saliva so don’t be afraid of this. Don’t worry so much about techniques, show him you’re enjoying what you’re doing.
Do you know what most excites a man when he receives oral sex? The feeling that his cock is all you want right now.
4) Don’t let him go all the way (at first)
Have the sex you want; have the sex you feel like having. But during sex, in the first penetration have him wait a little longer at the entrance of the vagina.
As if the man was only allowed to experience that part of the vagina at that moment.
Move calmly while showing him that you want more.
But in the beginning, make movements, circle around, say you are going to take him inside but don’t actually go beyond the glans during penetration.
Enjoy the entrance, this will make you highly aroused. It will be almost impossible to wait.
5) In sex, be free and fantasize
In sex, be whoever you want to be. Be free.
Insecure men do not like free women. Men who enjoy sex and know what they want allow women to fantasize, talk, and do whatever they want in bed.
Few things make a man more turned on than being with a real woman, someone with a free mind, who is free from the kind of prejudice that limits enjoyment.
Don’t focus on your body’s imperfections. Men like to grab and squeeze.
Cellulite is a part of life, some fat here and there, stretch marks too. Do you think he’s paying attention to this? It’s likely he’s not even bothering.
Want to make a man super horny? Let him grab you, squeeze you.
Bonus tip: Break the rules. Don’t let him guess what comes next.
This last one is infallible.
Most couples have sex knowing the sequence of steps, what they will do before sex, what they will do after, how they will be stimulated, and how they will end up in bed.
To get a man super horny, make him not know what’s next.
Make him not know if you’re going to kiss him, if you’re going to suck him, if you’re going to bite him.
When he thinks there will be a kiss, bite him gently. When he thinks you will bite him, lick him.
That is breaking the rules, it’s him not knowing what you’re going to do.
Don’t let him know when penetration will start, when certain positions will come, or when the fantasy you once thought of putting into practice will begin.
Leaving rules or what has been pre-established behind is what makes sex interesting.
Good sex is part of a good life; good sex has to be free.
