I’m going to tell you about the 10 things that men generally like in bed, but please understand that you don’t have to do any of this if you don’t feel comfortable.
Keep this in mind: Men like women with high self-esteem, who value themselves, who take care of themselves and especially who respect themselves and only do things they feel good about.
Only do it if you’re up for it.
1) Well-groomed women
We may think that only women give value to hygiene, scents and such things, but men also like women who are shaved, have a fragrant scent, good breath and wear sexy lingerie.
In the case of lingerie, you don’t need to be in sexy lingerie all the time, but it should be at least beautiful and presentable, not ripped, frayed or old.
Here’s a tip: you can also use the power of a nice perfume to seduce your partner.
You can buy perfumes with pheromones that stimulate sexual arousal, so that your scent will be imprinted in your partner’s memory.
2) Massage
Men like to enjoy a nice massage. An arousing one is even better, as it goes through all the erogenous zones.
You can focus on a massage that turns your partner on and then soothes, turns him on and then soothes, alternately.
He’s going to go crazy, because the arousal will keep going up until the moment he thinks he’s going to explode.
And the best thing is that you’re the one who’s going to enjoy this explosion.
3) Women who express what they are feeling
You need to take initiative, without feeling ashamed of your body or anything like that.
Don’t be make a fuss about this. Show what you are feeling and, whether you like it or not – speak.
No need to use heavy profanity, but practice saying insinuating sentences or even just a word here and there if you prefer.
The most important is that you act according to what you feel at the moment, don’t keep policing yourself in fear of what your partner might think.
Another thing is to never have sex out of obligation.
Make sure you are really turned on and show your partner what you’re feeling.
4) Ear and neck rubs
Some women think that men only like to be stimulated around the penis, but that’s not true.
They like to be caressed in other parts of the body too.
Two examples which are preferred by many men are the ears and the neck.
So feel free to kiss, lick or gently blow air on these areas of the body.
Nipples can also be hot spots for some men; ask first or start slowly and watch their reaction.
5) In oral sex
Everybody knows that men love oral sex, but since this is a top preference for most men I had to put some tips here for you to rock it next time you do it.
For starters: eye contact is crucial; they go crazy when a woman occasionally looks at them during oral sex and shows she’s enjoying it.
There is no dry oral sex, that is, there is no type of dry sex, so use your saliva or some flavored gel abundantly in order to make this a very pleasurable moment.
If you don’t make enough saliva or if you do not have any gel on hand, then put his penis against your throat, which will make you gag and therefore produce more saliva.
After that, vary your pace. Suck the penis a little harder and faster without hurting it, then slow the speed and the pace down, suck one side, then the other, and go back to the glans.
Keep alternating the pace if you want to really drive him crazy.
Be careful when grabbing the penis. Grip it firmly as it is not made of glass, but don’t squeeze it or pull it too hard either.
Also pay attention to the testicles which provide a lot of pleasure when stimulated, but be careful here too as they are very sensitive.
When you go for oral sex, do not run straight down to the penis. Go down on a path of kisses, nibbles and licks until you get there.
He already knows what’s going to happen, but he will enjoy this anticipation of pleasure.
Read also: How to give a man the best oral sex of his life: 21 tips on the ultimate blowjob
6) Pompoir
For those of you who might not know, pompoir is an ancient technique of exercises to strengthen the muscles around the vagina.
Women who learn this technique are able to contract the vagina in different ways causing the man to have wonderful sensations during intercourse.
So if you haven’t heard about it yet, I’d recommend you to research more about this topic.
7) Warming or cooling gels
You have probably heard of lubricants that provide a warming or cooling sensation.
Warming/cooling are some examples of functional gels, but there is also a lubricant with a vibrating effect now on the market.
Generally, men like the ones that cool off and women like the ones that heat up, but that’s not an absolute rule.
I would suggest you to buy one of each type so you can test them all.
By trying a different lubricant whenever you have sex, you will find out which one your partner prefers and also which one pleases you the most.
8) Women who take charge
No need to tie or handcuff, but it is important for women to know how to take charge and switch positions, like moving on top or on all fours.
The woman can also hold the man’s hand or place it where she wants it at that moment, for example on her breasts, in her hair.
Show what you want and how you want it. Men like it in bed too.
Pulling his hair is also ok, as well as using stronger grips. This shouldn’t be exclusive to men.
9) Women who know how to hold the penis
Many men complain about the way women hold their penis.
Some grab it using force and give the impression that they are going to pull the penis out while handling it.
Other women hold the penis with disgust or look like they’re going to break it, which isn’t cool either.
So grab it firmly. Be careful, but grab it firmly.
Read also: The Complete Guide to Female and Male Masturbation
10) Women who use other parts of the body during sex
You can use your hair to caress his back or inner thighs.
Using your breasts to touch his body until you reach his penis for oral sex is also something that men love. It has the sensuality of the breasts as well as a delicate touch.
You can also venture into using the breasts to stimulate the penis.
Place his penis in the middle of your breasts and try to simulate the movements of sexual intercourse. A lot of men like this too.
Another part of the body that is not very common but can be used is the feet. There are men who are fascinated by them.
Use your entire body to give pleasure to your partner and you will consequently gain more pleasure too.
So now that you know what men like in bed, choose one of these tips and put it into practice to make him fall over heels for you.
