There is a popular belief, especially among men, that a large penis gives women more pleasure.
This belief is related to the lack of knowledge that people have about the average dimensions of the penis and of the vagina.
Other contributing factors constitute pornographic magazines and films that show men with enormous penises and associate penis size with male virility and sexual pleasure and satisfaction in women.
There is also an influence from friends who tell jokes and brag about their penis size and even by some men who compare the penis size of their young children to that of their classmates.
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The average penis size
It should be noted that most penises, when erect, measure between 11 and 16 cm, with an average of 14 cm.
The average size of the adult penis in a flaccid state varies between 6 to 9 cm, and it may be slightly lower depending on factors such as cold temperatures or any other situation that may influence its size.
The depth of most vaginas
The depth of most vaginas, on the other hand, varies from 9 to 12 cm.
That is, a very large penis does not have any advantage when it comes to female sexual pleasure and satisfaction – on the contrary, it may even hurt the female partner.
When the man has a large penis, his organ usually touches the woman’s cervix during intercourse and the couple might need to adapt their sex positions so that she does not feel pain.
It should be said that, in the vagina, the area that is most sensitive to erotic stimuli is located in the first three centimeters of the vaginal opening (entrance).
So, what’s an XL-sized penis for?
Furthermore, female anatomical structures are different from the male.
The woman needs more time to reach the pelvic congestion necessary for arousal and lubrication.
So you should take care of the quality of your relationship on a daily basis, as this matters a lot to the woman during sex.
Do you want to please her? Invest in kindness, sensual caresses and seduction.
Find out how she likes to receive stimuli and allow yourself to also enjoy these sensations.
You will find that the only risk you will take is to give and feel much more pleasure.
How important is penis size?
According to Sex Therapist and Psychologist Dr. Carolina Freitas, the size of the penis does not have the relevance that our culture insists upon.
This concern, if excessive, can actually bring sexual performance anxiety.
She also adds that there are currently no effective procedures for penis enlargement.
The available treatments can even bring problems to men in the functioning of the penis.
Sexual pleasure is not related to the size of the penis, but to the connexion shared by the couple.
It is therefore important to know that the size of the penis has no direct correlation to sexual performance and that the size of the penis at rest does not determine the size of the penis when erect.
The vagina is elastic because it is a muscle that accommodates any penis sizes.
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