Have you ever French kissed before? What keeps you from trying it? Today I am going to share some tips and ideas for you to learn more about this art.
A French kiss is an openly erotic practice that requires training and practice.
Kissing is a way to express your personality, leave your mark and seduce your partner.
How about surprising your partner at the time of the kiss with a little more tongue action?
French kissing, in addition to revealing a couple’s passion, is a declaration of the excitement felt in a relationship.
This is why French kissing for the first time can greatly increase expectations between two people.
So focus all of your attention and desire to the following paragraphs.
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Getting to know more about French kiss
Keep in mind that French kissing requires special care and attention, especially on such a desirable erogenous zone.
A good tongue kiss is a sample of the intimacy and expectations that are beginning to grow between two people (including sexual expectations).
It is therefore important to surrender to this experience, combining the explosion of sensations (strong emotions) with that feeling of security (of knowing what you are doing).
Fun fact
A French kiss does not start with the lips, but with the eyes (as you see and are seen by the other person).
When you look at the eyes or lips of the person you cherish, approach and initiate the first physical contacts (touching hands, caresses on arms).
Your body language interactions will speak louder and determine the right moment to kiss.
At this time, a slight smile can be an invitation to start kissing.
How to surprise your partner when French kissing: 6 tips
Start slowly.
Don’t be in a hurry to tune in to the same frequency as your partner. After all, people kiss in different ways.
The learning experience goes beyond the mere touching of the lips, as it involves an encounter of bodies and intentions.
Here are some tips for you to surprise your partner when it comes to kissing with your tongue.
1) Season and taste
It seems quite obvious, but nobody likes to kiss a person with bad breath.
Bad breath or strange tastes can put an early end to any oral experience.
Having mints or peppermint gum is not enough to disguise an unhealthy mouth or mask those foods which potentially leave a very bad breath.
Make sure to brush your teeth and your tongue and use a fluoride mouthwash of your choice.
2) Closed eyes, open heart
As your lips come together, right before touching, close your eyes.
Kissing with open eyes is dishonest and reveals a lack of motivation and interest in kissing.
In addition, when you close your eyes you can enjoy the sensations on your lips and mouth a lot more.
Let your imagination flow, the touch prevail and the heart accelerate. Forget about time and let your feelings set the pace.
Fun fact
Did you know that French kisses of couples in love last an average of 3 minutes?
There are worldwide kissing competitions where the technique and affinity of the couples guarantee them prizes and titles.
With a time of 58 hours, 35 minutes and 58 seconds, a Thai couple broke the world record for the longest kiss in 2013.
Do not be impressed or worried, as the length of the kiss is determined by those who are kissing.
Enjoy the moment!
3) Clean conscience, light head
Move your head closer until it is only a few inches apart from your partner’s, increasing the sexual tension of the kiss.
Holding your partner’s neck at this time reveals self-confidence.
Take turns tilting your head to one side, then to the other, finding the best possible position.
This prevents the noses from touching and makes the movement of the tongue easier.
When you notice that the other person is tilting their head to one side, move your head to the other.
4) Kiss with passion, use your tongue sparingly
Do not leave your mouth completely open and still.
Show interest.
Move your upper lips gently, just enough to press the face muscles.
Instead of starting with your mouth wide open, leave your lips just open enough so that your tongue can pass between them.
Run your lips lightly over the other person’s lips.
Increase the expectation of the kiss by using the tongue little by little, at first reaching the tip of the tongue between the lips, then searching for the teeth and finding your partner’s tongue.
5) Kiss with your body and soul
Pull the person close and press your body against theirs. Maintain pressure only if you feel that this is comfortable for your partner.
Use your hands.
Carefully touching the person’s body with your hands can increase the learning experience of the kiss, in addition to making you feel more connected to each other.
Once this contact is made, try to move your hands around the person’s body, caressing the neck, shoulders, back and hips.
Fun fact
According to Freud, the father of Psychoanalysis, our loving feelings carry the intention of grabbing-eating-swallowing the object of our affection.
Kissing is the most explicit manifestation of this desire and it is precisely from this idea that Freud’s famous oral fixation theories come.
6) Surprise your partner so you can be surprised
Confidence when kissing with tongue reveals the maturity of the kisser.
Allowing yourself little actions during this type of kiss is an adventure that anyone can experience.
Invest in the techniques, but also surrender to the moment.
Try at the end of each kiss to suck the person’s lower lips while moving away from their body. The comings and goings of mouths and bodies increase the pleasure of kissing and being kissed.
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*Tips
Prepare your lips
Women can wear lipstick, men can use lip balm. In the case of lip balm, just put it on your lips and then rub them against one another.
Kisses are exchanges of fluids and air
So that the kiss does not drown in saliva, keep breathing through your nostrils and swallow at intervals so as not to drool over the person.
After reading all of this, you can ask yourself:
How about when the kiss doesn’t work or doesn’t satisfy you? What do you do? Does a no-kiss relationship work?
One of the proofs that a person still has emotional difficulty or inexperience is the difficulty in surrendering to the kiss.
This surrender concerns the well-being and security that only the direct contact with the other person is able to convey.
Understand that kissing is the beginning of many relationships and the guarantee of maintaining affection and sexuality.
Everyone likes to kiss and be kissed.
The first kisses, even when passionate, need not be the best. If they were the best, they would end the kisses and relationships that followed.
Learn from your partners, develop your techniques and strategies, do whatever it takes, but never stop kissing.
Always surprise in this gesture and stay in the memory of the person you desire.
