Perhaps you have already been curious to know what this is. Squirting is a word that is used to describe the discharge of a noticeable amount of fluid from the urethra during sexual stimulation.
This possibility has been widely discussed lately, but there are old reports of women who already expelled liquids during orgasm in ancient times.
But what would “squirting” really be?
It is when the woman ejaculates and squirts liquid or fluids out of her vagina.
Everyone has probably heard of this or has maybe seen a movie where a woman reaches an orgasm and has a large amount of liquid coming out of her vagina. This is the famous “squirt”.
This topic sparks a lot of curiosity because most people do not know how or why it happens.
Today this practice is one of the main goals of many women in the sexual field. Many women dream of achieving it.
One of the explanations is that this subject is a bit of an urban myth in which a friend speaks to another, passing on information about sexual experiences that they often did not have and therefore creating a taboo around the subject.
Several myths were born this way, so it is important to unravel and clarify them.
So let’s get started!
Is it pee?
Many people believe that this liquid is composed of urine. Some research has shown that this was the case.
Samuel Salama, a scientist at the Department of Gynecology and Obstetrics in France, has published an article stating that squirting is the involuntary emission of urine during sex.
Even if the liquid does not smell or look like urine, the substances that make it up are the same.
Opinions are divided though. The scientific research on this subject has been inconsistent.
A study published by The Journal of Sexual Medicine says that this fluid has the characteristics of prostatic plasma, not urine.
It also concludes that this may be proof that our paraurethral or Skene’s glands, where the fluid comes from, work as female prostate glands.
This liquid is colorless, slightly denser than water, and odorless.
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Can every woman have it? Does she just have to learn it?
Many experts claim that all women can squirt, as they all have Skene’s glands.
Deborah Sundahl, one of the leading experts on female ejaculation, says that female ejaculation is available to most women.
The variation in percentages of women who report that at some point they have experienced a spurt of fluid during orgasm is high, confirming the inconsistency among different surveys.
Another factor that can determine a woman’s ability to squirt is where the Skene’s glands are located on her body, as well as the ability to produce prostatic fluid.
As this varies from woman to woman, we can conclude that not every woman can squirt, even with proper training and education.
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Do you need to squirt in order to have an orgasm?
Does the woman who has already experienced an ejaculation have more pleasure than those who have never had it? Here comes the orgasm controversy again.
There is no way to measure whether an orgasm is better than another by comparing one woman to another, as this experience is subjective.
The same woman has different orgasms in each orgasmic experience.
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Everything about sexuality depends on several factors and orgasms would be no different.
There are days when you are more willing to have sex or have been more stimulated so probably your orgasm will be better, or at least easier to have.
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Is squirting caused by the stimulation of the G-spot?
The correlation between squirting and the G-Spot is still unclear.
The reason for this confusion is that the Skene’s glands are located on the posterior wall of the vagina near the lower end of the urethra and may be close to or part of the G-spot.
Therefore, for some women, stimulating the G-spot can lead to female ejaculation.
Is what we see in pornographic films real?
Whenever you see a woman squirting in a film, remember that it could be water that was put in her vagina before the actual intercourse or maybe that the woman is peeing in front of the camera.
Women who ejaculate say it is easier to ejaculate when they are relaxed and the condition of working in front of the camera is not exactly soothing.
Now that you know a little more about squirting and have perhaps become curious to know if you or your partner can do it, here are 2 tips:
- As you have seen above, the Skene’s glands are very close to the G-spot so it is important that you find yours or your partner’s and learn how to stimulate them. They are on the anterior wall of the vagina, behind the pubic bone. They can be stimulated with your finger or your partner’s and with the penis in certain positions. One of the options is to put your legs well up on his shoulder.
- The most important in order to achieve squirting is that the woman is at ease with her sexuality, not looking for this as if it were her salvation and the last resort to have pleasure or to please her partner. Look for it as a form of self-knowledge and curiosity. If you can achieve it, good. If not, that is good too! Continue enjoying sex, having pleasure and orgasms in the way that is best for you.
Sexuality is composed of several factors, and in order to have a better sex life, changes in several aspects are necessary.
So it is wrong to think that the mere fact of squirting will make you and/or your partner happier and more satisfied.
The ideal is to give importance to the singularities of the couple. Each couple is unique and that is the beauty of diversity.
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